One of the most disturbing aspects that I have been witnessing as a divorce lawyer in the past few months is that even despite impossibly devastating financial conditions still some of the fathers choose not to pay maintenance. In fact, they have conveniently decided to use COVID19 as an excuse for not paying maintenance..Section 125 in The Code Of Criminal Procedure, 1973.Order for maintenance of wives, children and parents..(1) If any person having sufficient means neglects or refuses to maintain-(a) his wife, unable to maintain herself, or (b) his legitimate or illegitimate minor child, whether married or not, unable to maintain itself, or(c) his legitimate or illegitimate child (not being a married daughter) who has attained majority, where such child is, by reason of any physical or mental abnormality or injury unable to maintain itself, or(d) his father or mother, unable to maintain himself or herself, a Magistrate of the first class may, upon proof of such neglect or refusal, order such person to make a monthly allowance for the maintenance of his wife or such child, father or mother, at such monthly rate not exceeding five hundred rupees in the whole, as such Magistrate thinks fit, and to pay the same to such person as the Magistrate may from time to time direct: Provided that the Magistrate may order the father of a minor female child referred to in clause (b) to make such allowance, until she attains her majority, if the Magistrate is satisfied that the husband of such minor female child, if married, is not possessed of sufficient means. Explanation.- For the purposes of this Chapter,-(a) " minor" means a person who, under the provisions of the Indian Majority Act, 1875 (9 of 1875 ); is deemed not to have attained his majority;(b) " wife" includes a woman who has been divorced by, or has obtained a divorce from, her husband and has not remarried..(2) Such allowance shall be payable from the date of the order, or, if so ordered, from the date of the application for maintenance..(3) If any person so ordered fails without sufficient cause to comply with the order, any such Magistrate may, for every breach of the order, issue a warrant for levying the amount due in the manner provided for levying fines, and may sentence such person, for the whole or any part of each month' s allowances remaining unpaid after the execution of the warrant, to imprisonment for a term which may extend to one month or until payment if sooner made: Provided that no warrant shall be issued for the recovery of any amount due under this section unless application be made to the Court to levy such amount within a period of one year from the date on which it became due: Provided further that if such person offers to maintain his wife on condition of her living with him, and she refuses to live with him, such.Magistrate may consider any grounds of refusal stated by her, and may make an order under this section notwithstanding such offer, if he is satisfied that there is just ground for so doing. Explanation.- If a husband has contracted marriage with another woman or keeps a mistress, it shall be considered to be just ground for his wife' s refusal to live with him..(4) No Wife shall be entitled to receive an allowance from her husband under this section if she is living in adultery, or if, without any sufficient reason, she refuses to live with her husband, or if they are living separately by mutual consent..(5) On proof that any wife in whose favour an order has been made under this section is living in adultery, or that without sufficient reason she refuses to live with her husband, or that they are living separately by mutual consent, the Magistrate shall cancel the order..Let's face facts – as Indians, we all have huge amounts of savings and despite consumerism taking over our lives we still save a lot. No Indian in the middle-class economic stratum and above is becoming bankrupt in 3 months. So why do men at this stage decide not to provide for their child?.In acrimonious divorce battles where orders for maintenance have been passed against the men, they have taken it upon themselves to use this time to square up the battle and exact vengeance. That is because the courts are not really working and it would be extremely difficult and expensive for the wife to move the court at this time. In one matter that I am handling where a politician, Wren *60, who is worth hundreds of crores and is to pay the wife and child combined maintenance of only fifty thousand a month has pleaded penury. Ironically, he is also busy distributing free food to people in his constituency and campaigning for more funds from the government for the poor. Meanwhile, his child-Samantha*, 9 years old, is pleading with her father to pay. He keeps telling her, "You stop staying with Mummy and come back and stay with me and I'll buy you everything"..Which really begs the questions-Will COVID19 change the way court battles are fought? In my opinion, the acrimony will increase rather than decrease and there will be a huge deluge of court cases..After COVID19 one of the big changes I would like to see in these cases is the immediate implementation of the order so that the child does not suffer. Currently, the implementation takes so long that it defeats the purpose of providing immediate financial relief to the mother and child..Another change should be a stiffer penalty for non-compliance of the order, which would be a deterrent. In this too, the child would not have to suffer..Wren has made the classic mistake of punishing the child for what he thinks is the wife's crimes. Since he cannot get to the wife he attacks the child..If I was his lawyer I would have advised him to pay for the child because after all, you can stop being a husband but never a father and when I hear Samantha telling me, "Daddy doesn't love me" I know that Wren is playing a dangerous game in which he may lose his child..*Names changed to protect privacy
One of the most disturbing aspects that I have been witnessing as a divorce lawyer in the past few months is that even despite impossibly devastating financial conditions still some of the fathers choose not to pay maintenance. In fact, they have conveniently decided to use COVID19 as an excuse for not paying maintenance..Section 125 in The Code Of Criminal Procedure, 1973.Order for maintenance of wives, children and parents..(1) If any person having sufficient means neglects or refuses to maintain-(a) his wife, unable to maintain herself, or (b) his legitimate or illegitimate minor child, whether married or not, unable to maintain itself, or(c) his legitimate or illegitimate child (not being a married daughter) who has attained majority, where such child is, by reason of any physical or mental abnormality or injury unable to maintain itself, or(d) his father or mother, unable to maintain himself or herself, a Magistrate of the first class may, upon proof of such neglect or refusal, order such person to make a monthly allowance for the maintenance of his wife or such child, father or mother, at such monthly rate not exceeding five hundred rupees in the whole, as such Magistrate thinks fit, and to pay the same to such person as the Magistrate may from time to time direct: Provided that the Magistrate may order the father of a minor female child referred to in clause (b) to make such allowance, until she attains her majority, if the Magistrate is satisfied that the husband of such minor female child, if married, is not possessed of sufficient means. Explanation.- For the purposes of this Chapter,-(a) " minor" means a person who, under the provisions of the Indian Majority Act, 1875 (9 of 1875 ); is deemed not to have attained his majority;(b) " wife" includes a woman who has been divorced by, or has obtained a divorce from, her husband and has not remarried..(2) Such allowance shall be payable from the date of the order, or, if so ordered, from the date of the application for maintenance..(3) If any person so ordered fails without sufficient cause to comply with the order, any such Magistrate may, for every breach of the order, issue a warrant for levying the amount due in the manner provided for levying fines, and may sentence such person, for the whole or any part of each month' s allowances remaining unpaid after the execution of the warrant, to imprisonment for a term which may extend to one month or until payment if sooner made: Provided that no warrant shall be issued for the recovery of any amount due under this section unless application be made to the Court to levy such amount within a period of one year from the date on which it became due: Provided further that if such person offers to maintain his wife on condition of her living with him, and she refuses to live with him, such.Magistrate may consider any grounds of refusal stated by her, and may make an order under this section notwithstanding such offer, if he is satisfied that there is just ground for so doing. Explanation.- If a husband has contracted marriage with another woman or keeps a mistress, it shall be considered to be just ground for his wife' s refusal to live with him..(4) No Wife shall be entitled to receive an allowance from her husband under this section if she is living in adultery, or if, without any sufficient reason, she refuses to live with her husband, or if they are living separately by mutual consent..(5) On proof that any wife in whose favour an order has been made under this section is living in adultery, or that without sufficient reason she refuses to live with her husband, or that they are living separately by mutual consent, the Magistrate shall cancel the order..Let's face facts – as Indians, we all have huge amounts of savings and despite consumerism taking over our lives we still save a lot. No Indian in the middle-class economic stratum and above is becoming bankrupt in 3 months. So why do men at this stage decide not to provide for their child?.In acrimonious divorce battles where orders for maintenance have been passed against the men, they have taken it upon themselves to use this time to square up the battle and exact vengeance. That is because the courts are not really working and it would be extremely difficult and expensive for the wife to move the court at this time. In one matter that I am handling where a politician, Wren *60, who is worth hundreds of crores and is to pay the wife and child combined maintenance of only fifty thousand a month has pleaded penury. Ironically, he is also busy distributing free food to people in his constituency and campaigning for more funds from the government for the poor. Meanwhile, his child-Samantha*, 9 years old, is pleading with her father to pay. He keeps telling her, "You stop staying with Mummy and come back and stay with me and I'll buy you everything"..Which really begs the questions-Will COVID19 change the way court battles are fought? In my opinion, the acrimony will increase rather than decrease and there will be a huge deluge of court cases..After COVID19 one of the big changes I would like to see in these cases is the immediate implementation of the order so that the child does not suffer. Currently, the implementation takes so long that it defeats the purpose of providing immediate financial relief to the mother and child..Another change should be a stiffer penalty for non-compliance of the order, which would be a deterrent. In this too, the child would not have to suffer..Wren has made the classic mistake of punishing the child for what he thinks is the wife's crimes. Since he cannot get to the wife he attacks the child..If I was his lawyer I would have advised him to pay for the child because after all, you can stop being a husband but never a father and when I hear Samantha telling me, "Daddy doesn't love me" I know that Wren is playing a dangerous game in which he may lose his child..*Names changed to protect privacy
